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WHY SAY NO TO VALENTINE’s-DAY

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السّلام عليكم ورحمت الله و بركاته

Hey everybody! Welcome back !

When a majority of human population is busy outside buying roses, planning outfits and scheduling dinners for 8’o’clock tomorrow with their ‘valentines’, thanks for stopping by. Because I am going to tell you why you should NOT be doing so.✋🏻
Hold on,let’s first talk about how and why the 14th of February became associated with the Valentine concept. There are two histories explaining the birth of this pagan festival.

1.According to the Catholic Encyclopedia, there were at least three early Christian saints by the name Valentine. One was a priest in Rome, another a bishop in Terni, and the third, St. Valentine which almost nothing is known about, except that he met his end in Africa. Astonishingly, all the three Valentines were said to have been martyred on February 14.

Valentine who was a priest, served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Valentine felt this was unfair so he celebrated marriages in secret. When the emperor found out he was thrown in jail and sentenced to death.

It wasn’t until more than 200 years later that 14 February was proclaimed St Valentine’s Day. By this time Rome had become Christian and the Catholic Church was determined to stamp out any remaining paganism. A pagan fertility ritual was held in February each year and the Pope abolished this festival and proclaimed 14 February Saint Valentine’s Day, thus establishing this feast day on the Catholic Calendar of Saints.

2)From Feb. 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain.
Young women would actually line up for the men to hit them, Lenski says. They believed this would make them fertile.
The brutal fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which young men drew the names of women from a jar. The couple would then be, um, coupled up for the duration of the festival — or longer, if the match was right.

So I would argue, more than love,valentine’s day has got to do with martyrdom and violence against women. Bizarre world❗️

And now for the logical part. What sense does it make when a guy asks a girl ‘ WILL U B MY VALENTINE?’ and loves her and takes her out for a date on this singled out day of the year. Oh wait ,wait, tell me, where is love here❓

Now , for the Islamic part, for the muslims around. There is no reason you can justify your part in taking part in this celebration. Here’s what the Permanent Commitee for scholarly research and Ifta says:

The clear-cut evidence from the Qur’an and Sunnah, upon which the Salaf (righteous predecessors) of this Ummah (nation based on one creed) unanimously agreed, confirms that there are only *two Eids (festivals) in Islam:* *Eid-ul-Fitr (the Festival of Breaking the Fast) and Eid-ul-Adha (the Festival of the Sacrifice)*. Any other festival, whether peculiar to a person, a group, an event, or any other reason, is an invented festival that is not permissible for Muslims to celebrate, approve of, enjoy, or support in any way, because this is considered to be a transgression of the Limits of Allah. Anyone who transgresses the limits set by Allah has wronged themselves.

If we add to this fabricated festival the fact that it is one of the festivals of the Kafirs(disbelievers) this heaps sin upon sin, because it entails resembling them and is a type of support of them. Allah (may He be Glorified) forbids the Mumins (believers), in His Ever-Glorious Book, from imitating or supporting the Kafirs. It is authentically reported that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: *Anyone who imitates a people is one of them*. (Abu Dawud, Sunan, Book on clothing, no. 4031; Ahmad, Musnad, vol. 2, p. 50). Valentine’s Day falls under this heading, as it is one of the idolatrous Christian festivals. It is not lawful for a Muslim who believes in Allah and the Last Day to celebrate, approve of, or congratulate people on it; it is forbidden to them. Rather, it is obligatory for them to ignore and avoid it, in obedience to Allah and His Messenger and to keep away from that which will arouse Allah’s Anger and incur Punishment.

*It is also Haram (prohibited) for Muslims to support this festival or any other Haram festival by any means, whether by supplying food or drinks; selling, buying, manufacturing, gift-giving, correspondence, advertising etc., because all this comes under cooperating in sin and transgression and disobeying Allah and His Messenger*. Allah (may He be Glorified and Exalted) says: Help you one another in Al-Birr and At-Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression. And fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is Severe in punishment. (Surah Al-Ma’idah, 5: 2)

It is obligatory for Muslims to adhere to the Qur’an and Sunnah in all matters, especially in times of Fitnah (trial) when corruption is widespread. They must be sagacious enough and on their guard to avoid falling into the misguidance of those who have earned Allah’s Anger, those who went astray, or the Fasiqs (those flagrantly violating Islamic law) who have no fear of Allah nor have pride in being Muslims. Muslims should resort to Allah, asking for guidance and steadfastness in Islam, as it is Allah Alone Who guides and keeps us steadfast.

Yeah so…that was it. You are more than free to disagree but I hope I have succeeded in getting the point across. Don’t let boys/girls fool you into their lust. Don’t fall prey to fake expressions of love. Know your worth. 💎

Bye. 👋🏻

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5 thoughts on “WHY SAY NO TO VALENTINE’s-DAY

  1. Good one Adila.
    I’m totally in love with your initiative.
    Something i was actually looking for.
    May Allah reward you for your good intentions 🙂
    Jazakallah khair ☺️

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  2. Hey there, I have been reading a few articles from your blog and I’m loving all of them. Even though we belong to very different religious, I feel like we could totally be friends. I can respect every religion and belief as long as people don’y hurt anyone. Can I ask you some things about it? For example, how do you live a normal life, always respecting your religious beliefs? Are they appropriate to the 21st century or are they ancient and too strict and outdated like the catholic beliefs? (my religion) Would love to know more about this!

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    1. That’s such a sweet thing to say. We could always keep our differences aside and be great friends. I follow Islam and I believe it is the religion that has been there since our father Adam (peace be upon him) onwards. In the meantime there have been many Prophets like Jesus ,Abraham ,Moses ,Muhammed (Peace be upon them all) have come to teach people how to worship our Creator. I find my religion to be totally practical and don’t have find any inconvenience in observing the obligations in Islam. We believe we will resurrected after our death and will be held accountable for all our deeds-good or bad. So that’s where we find the motivation to keep doing anything good. And there’s a kind of peace we’ll feel when We observe the commands of our Creator. It’s not too strict, it’s all about observing a balance in everything you do and not cross the limits. And we basically follow the Holy Book called the Quran and the teachings of the last Prophet Muhammed(Peace be upon Him). Islam does not just deal with things relating to Worship but every thing you deal with in our lives. Religion is inseparable from our normal lives. Everything we do we expect a reward in the Hereafter, so we do things out of hope instead of any pressure or discomfort. I hope I’ve shared something valuable with you. Thanks again for being so open minded and asking. How is your life? Are you a religious person? And what are your thoughts on it?:)

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      1. Thank you so much for your explanation!! I loved it. I definitely have faith but I believe in all Gods. Every name you can give him, I believe there is only one God. I sort of have my own God. The God I pray to and talk to. The catholic church describes God as vindictive and I like to believe that he is not. That he is kind and there for me. I also don’t follow the catholic church rules. I live with my husband but we are not married, we just have a piece of paper saying we share a home, which is legally accepted but not in the church. I also don’t like their policy of not using contraceptives. Am I suppose to have ten children and let them starve? They are rules that are hard to apply nowadays. But I respect the catholic church and all religions. There is no prejudice at all. I know some people have some trouble with Muslims because of misunderstandings and misconceptions but I have none of that.

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